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Stories are at the heart of every life. Remembering the stories of loved ones offers us glimpses of hope during difficult times. We need stories for living into every single day.

Deb BrandtEvery loss has its own unique stories. The story of the life lived, stories about the person’s influence and impact on those he or she loved, stories of shortcomings and successes. A multitude of stories help define, honor and celebrate the one who has died. Every time I perform a funeral with a family, I relish learning about the ways in which the person chose to live their one wild and precious life. Family and friends have taught me that it is in the stories told that we find glimpses of hope for how to live life forward after a death.

Stories are also supported by generous rituals. We need rituals when there are not enough words to express the loss and grief we are experiencing. Rituals can look very traditional and include practices such as musical elements, candle lighting, the comfort of scripture or poetry. Rituals can also include very personal elements. Moments of silence, offering space to write notes for surviving family members, the spoken words of family and friends. Ritual elements may include inviting everyone to wear their favorite sports team jersey or to join in the funeral procession riding their motorcycle. It might include sparklers or firecrackers or fresh baked pies filling the room with their scent. Rituals offer ways to connect with the beloved and with meaning and relationship. We need rituals to help us begin the journey of healing after a loss.

As a certified funeral celebrant and creative grief support practitioner I serve as a companion to finding clues to making meaning during difficult times. Using tools of listening, creativity, silence, laughter and more, together we can create a service during which we can reflect, honor and hold dear the one who has died. We can look for the sweetest words for living towards wholeheartedness after loss.

As for me…

There are many things that inform my work as a certified celebrant and creative grief practitioner. The loss of my grandparents, parents, a precious uncle and a younger sister not to mention the passing of beloved pets have deeply touched and influenced who I am and who I have become. Actively choosing to leave behind a career path, moving across the U.S. not once but twice… leaning into new communities and rediscovering my own creativity in the face of change are all aspects of what I’ve learned about purposeful mourning and the creativity of growth through grief.

My experiences have taught me much. I hold a master’s degree in religious studies and certificates in organizational development, nonprofit management and mediation. I completed Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s training to earn a certificate in Grief and Death Studies. I am also a Certified Creative Grief Support Practitioner through the Creative Grief Studio and a Certified Funeral Celebrant through In-sight Institute’s Training Division.

Contact Deb

For more information about Deb’s work as a funeral celebrant, creative grief support practitioner and professional writer, contact Deb Brandt at 317.603.4112 or deb@thesweetestwords.com.

What is a Funeral Celebrant?

Funeral celebrants bring a personalized approach to creating a meaningful celebration of life or memorial service. Highly trained to work with grieving families, celebrants create the space so that glimpses of hope and encouragement can be experienced. When words aren’t enough, funeral celebrants bring creativity, ideas and elements of ceremony to enable families to honor and remember their loved one. Funeral celebrants serve as resources for the most difficult day in the life of a family.

Covid-19 Loss and Celebrant Offerings

Deb has developed resources for families who lose a loved one to the Coronavirus. Using her experience as a certified celebrant Deb is helping families honor their loss in the days after the death. She is also offering caring conversations to families that will enable them to think about the service they would like when public gatherings are available in the future.

Grief is all around us as we collectively and individually face the losses related to this pandemic. Everything has changed. Making meaning as these traumatic events continue to unfold is very difficult. With gentleness and care, Deb is listening to the needs of those who mourn and supporting the process of being present to fresh grief. Learn more...

Listen: art and story

Listen to Deb's writing experiences and upcoming opportunities on Indy's Art of the Matter with Sharon Gamble on WFYI Radio.

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Working with Deb

“When you are grieving someone or something you’ve lost, there isn’t an answer or solution or just the right words to make you feel whole again. Working with Deb was a gift within my grieving. Deb’s gentleness and thoughtful listening was so compassionate.

There was healing kindness within her silence, between and among her words. She followed my lead, guiding me gently toward connection allowing me to celebrate my memories and live fully within the sadness of my loss. She helped me. My heart opened around her in a unique and unguarded manner.

It was with the utmost gratitude and highest respect that I recommend her to anyone who is working to grow within and ultimately beyond grief.”


- Jill

Certifications

Certified Creative Grief Support Practitioner